Picked Daniel up for his Dinner he gave me some A4 size posters he had made on the school pc. He told me on the way home that he had wrote me a letter on how he feels as today Mrs M had be horrible to him. I asked him what had happened .
Daniel was talking about the work to a class member while in maths.
Mrs M told Daniel off saying she had already warned him once.
Daniel replied saying he had got no warning.
She told Daniel to go to the head or Mr K or MRS H.
Daniel said ok.
He walked to the door but Daniel told me Mrs M said faster i want you out of here now.
Daniel told me she pushed him along hard with his jumper scrunged up in her hand.
Daniel told her to get off and she would be paying for his jumper.
Daniel went to the head MRS O and Daniel told MRS O who said to Daniel cause she didn't she was more like just walking with you.
Mrs O told Daniel to go back to MRS M and get her to write what had happened and bring it back.
Daniel did this and MRS O said wow this is a lot of things. Daniel told her half of it was not true.
MRS O TOLD DANIEL TEACHERS DONT TELL LIES.
Mrs R was sent to fetch Daniel work from MRS M .
Daniel was told to do the work and he would be fine.
Daniel was told earlier on at school by MRS M that everything he does is done on purpose and that everytime he does anything she will send him out the class.
What can i say but what a bunch of bastards .
I get this vision of my autistic son roaming the corridors all day.
"As for Teachers dont lie" i beg to differ but i have been lied to by several teachers . OK some were at a different school.
TODAY MY SON TOLD ME HE WANTED TO DIE BECAUSE OF SCHOOL AND SOME OF THE TEACHERS.
and now i have to take him back for after noon lessons.
faffajane
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This is absolutely appalling. The school is failing in its duty of care for your son and as far as I am concerned we are talking discrimination as well. A couple of question, mainly because my memory is like a sieve, but as I work in a school with a really good SEN department, I tend to be nosey lol!
Does Daniel have a statement for his autism? Is it funded by the local education Authority? There should be detailed action plan for your son put in place and if it is funded he should have with him a teaching assistant, someong preferably that is trained specifically to assist autistic children, but it depends on what the statement and the funding situation is. If there is a statement and it says that there should be specailist support, if it is not in place then the school has to justify why not. It seems to me at this stage, that the school does not want him there, it is something that they are clearly unwilling or unable to deal with but you can complain about the treatment your son gets. Ok so you have to go to the Headteacher who is probably just as useless and ineffectual as the class teacher, but once you have been to him/her, if the situation doesn't improve you complain to the board of governors, then to the LEA and really make a fuss. I hope that you are kept informed by having meetings with the Special Education Co-ordinator or inclusion manager, if not then the school is really failing both Daniel and you.