Thanks.
At present were keeping low profiles to see if ignoring what happens and showing were just not bovered makes the mother realise they cant rattle our cages so to speak. They may decide they are just wasting their time . when i was shouted at outside school i just walked off. I think this annoyed the mother far more than anything i coul more…
Thanks.
At present were keeping low profiles to see if ignoring what happens and showing were just not bovered makes the mother realise they cant rattle our cages so to speak. They may decide they are just wasting their time . when i was shouted at outside school i just walked off. I think this annoyed the mother far more than anything i more…
OMG, no wonder you needed you needed to get that off your chest.
I am sorry but this woman or/ and daughter need a restraining order, unfortunately you may have go to the police and to school about it. You need to record all that you suspect is being done and get the phone company to block calls from that number.
When i first heard about this i thought about all the good reasons for doing it. BUT COULD NOT FIND ANY...
Wonder when there will test to see what colour hair the baby might have. just an example as to where all this might lead.
I think telling people about the good days and bad days will help others know that their days are more more…
I find it horrendous that they plan to do this. Mind you I find genetic engineering really scary as well. I have worked with autistic children and down's syndrome children and young adults and though it is difficult it can also be very rewarding. I just feel ppl need more understanding about these children instead of labelling them or condeming more…
It so out of order.
Thanks its always good to gets comments from teachers who have worked with children with autism who understand the extra needs they have and as you say deserve.
thank you more…
Thanks. were just hoping one of the two SEN schools have a place as most were taken for Daniel's year so its a case of keeping on at the LEA to hurry up.Our LEA only have two SEN schools so fingers crosed. more…
I think you should report them because they are failing to provide an education for Daniel or to follow through with what all the agencies have suggested. I hope that once the statement in finalised with the school of your choice, things will settle down for you and Daniel. more…
we are waiting for the finalised statement with our named school of choice on it but the school know perfectly well from all the people who have been to school and done different reports on Daniel's needs plus they have seen Daniels Autism report which plainly says why he is like he is and lists what help he should get such as he is not to shouted more…
They seem to accept it which just shows how used they are to be the one who gets the blame.
I got a phone call from someone who wouldnt say who they was, saying if i carried on writing my blog i would be sued and they advised me to delete what i had already written. needless to say i told them where to go . I know my numbers in the phone book more…
People like that shouldn't have children! She needs to me locked up to think like that and well done for being so calm outwardly so as not to hit her, not sure I could have so much self control! more…
This is absolutely appalling. The school is failing in its duty of care for your son and as far as I am concerned we are talking discrimination as well. A couple of question, mainly because my memory is like a sieve, but as I work in a school with a really good SEN department, I tend to be nosey lol!
its easier for them to get rid our children than the real little $%&*$£""!£ . If IT was simple to find another club which i know it is not i would have told them where to stick it. i suppose we can only hope the nasty ones get sore throats. sounds nasty of me but so is what they do. hope your lad is not to upset. more…
Typical. Our lad got "Red Carded" at the local youth club last night for verbally retaliating after a couple of regular golden-hearts kept calling him "Spaz Boy".
Means he's banned for a fortnight while the little butter-wouldn't-melt-in-their-mouth tormentors got off scot free.
THE school gate is where i get all the stares because even if daniel dont act up on the way in or out of school they know all about his behaviour from there kids.
Its like being judged every day and as you know- no amount of thick skin can hide the looks of other parents. one thing is as they get older they start to notice how they tend to b more…
I'm really sorry to hear of your hassles with the school. I don't know what to advise cos I'm new to all this myself and I've had the same sort of rubbish the other day but from other parents at the school gate. I'm supposed to develop a thick skin, apparently. My son doesn't seem to notice how he is treated. But maybe I'm being an ostrich abou more…
Thanks for your advice and its nice to know that some schools have autism awareness and teachers that understand autism.
Daniel thanks you for your hug.also i saw you were after a power switch i had quick look around the web and your right. there hard to get hold of but i did notice an ebay seller although their over seas they deliver world more…
Just had a read through your blog and I am appalled at your son's teacher, let alone the school allowing her to treat him this way. I work in a school and we allare aware of the differing needs of the children. Some of them are autistic but the other children are not told, they know that these children may have an adult with them to help them, b more…
Down right stupid - absolutely agreed.
Mean, thoughtless, bullying, unsupportive and damaging, too.
Send him huge support from me please and tell him the world will always have idiots, even ones that are teachers. more…
Thanks. i do meet with the head teacher who seems to be most understanding but its the teachers who come into contact with him that seem to not always understand Daniels actions and i am not saying they should always get it right but as far as i can see its too many times they seem to get it wrong and although they will never see it the way i do as more…
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In response to: "24 TH OCT AM i BEIng Mean " 1117 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
Thanks.
At present were keeping low profiles to see if ignoring what happens and showing were just not bovered makes the mother realise they cant rattle our cages so to speak. They may decide they are just wasting their time . when i was shouted at outside school i just walked off. I think this annoyed the mother far more than anything i coul more…
In response to: "24 TH OCT AM i BEIng Mean " 1117 days old
by Teri_R [Member]
No problem :) more…
In response to: "24 TH OCT AM i BEIng Mean " 1117 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
thanks teri. more…
In response to: "24 TH OCT AM i BEIng Mean " 1117 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
Thanks.
At present were keeping low profiles to see if ignoring what happens and showing were just not bovered makes the mother realise they cant rattle our cages so to speak. They may decide they are just wasting their time . when i was shouted at outside school i just walked off. I think this annoyed the mother far more than anything i more…
In response to: "24 TH OCT AM i BEIng Mean " 1117 days old
by Teri_R [Member]
No you are not mean! Don't let people make you feel you are.
You have a right to protect your son, he is your world and you are his! more…
In response to: "24 TH OCT AM i BEIng Mean " 1117 days old
by loveslifeloveschocolate [Member]
OMG, no wonder you needed you needed to get that off your chest.
I am sorry but this woman or/ and daughter need a restraining order, unfortunately you may have go to the police and to school about it. You need to record all that you suspect is being done and get the phone company to block calls from that number.
You have more…
In response to: "THIS AND THAT" 1216 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
When i first heard about this i thought about all the good reasons for doing it. BUT COULD NOT FIND ANY...
Wonder when there will test to see what colour hair the baby might have. just an example as to where all this might lead.
I think telling people about the good days and bad days will help others know that their days are more more…
In response to: "THIS AND THAT" 1216 days old
by faffajane Pro
I find it horrendous that they plan to do this. Mind you I find genetic engineering really scary as well. I have worked with autistic children and down's syndrome children and young adults and though it is difficult it can also be very rewarding. I just feel ppl need more understanding about these children instead of labelling them or condeming more…
In response to: "THIS AND THAT" 1217 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
It so out of order.
Thanks its always good to gets comments from teachers who have worked with children with autism who understand the extra needs they have and as you say deserve.
thank you more…
In response to: "THIS AND THAT" 1217 days old
by sminchin Pro
People will be able to abort their babies if they find out they're autistic? That's terrible.
Good luck with your son. As a teacher who's worked with some autistic children before, I realise how much care they both need and deserve. more…
In response to: "14th june 2006" 1217 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
great news faffajane
Daniel has his place at a SEN school which is great news.
Thanks for all your advice .
Daniel says hi.
hope this finds you well.
more…
In response to: "14th june 2006" 1246 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
Thanks. were just hoping one of the two SEN schools have a place as most were taken for Daniel's year so its a case of keeping on at the LEA to hurry up.Our LEA only have two SEN schools so fingers crosed. more…
In response to: "14th june 2006" 1248 days old
by faffajane Pro
I think you should report them because they are failing to provide an education for Daniel or to follow through with what all the agencies have suggested. I hope that once the statement in finalised with the school of your choice, things will settle down for you and Daniel. more…
In response to: "6th june- (did not get time yesterday)" 1248 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
I know. just got the stares when i took Dans back for afternoon class. I dont care i have a surprise for them after he leaves. more…
In response to: "6th june- (did not get time yesterday)" 1248 days old
by [Visitor]
Unbelievabe. Don't lose heart. more…
In response to: "14th june 2006" 1248 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
we are waiting for the finalised statement with our named school of choice on it but the school know perfectly well from all the people who have been to school and done different reports on Daniel's needs plus they have seen Daniels Autism report which plainly says why he is like he is and lists what help he should get such as he is not to shouted more…
In response to: "mental mother" 1248 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
Its not that i didn't want to. I will just avoid the shopping centre around that time from now on and hopefully avoid her. more…
In response to: "6th june- (did not get time yesterday)" 1248 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
They seem to accept it which just shows how used they are to be the one who gets the blame.
I got a phone call from someone who wouldnt say who they was, saying if i carried on writing my blog i would be sued and they advised me to delete what i had already written. needless to say i told them where to go . I know my numbers in the phone book more…
In response to: "6th june- (did not get time yesterday)" 1249 days old
by [Visitor]
Hiya, sorry about the tardiness of my reply.
Nah, he's not too upset cos it's just a way of life for him.
BTW I see on your other blog you mention being sued?
What's that all about? more…
In response to: "mental mother" 1249 days old
by faffajane Pro
People like that shouldn't have children! She needs to me locked up to think like that and well done for being so calm outwardly so as not to hit her, not sure I could have so much self control! more…
In response to: "14th june 2006" 1249 days old
by faffajane Pro
This is absolutely appalling. The school is failing in its duty of care for your son and as far as I am concerned we are talking discrimination as well. A couple of question, mainly because my memory is like a sieve, but as I work in a school with a really good SEN department, I tend to be nosey lol!
Does Daniel have a statement for more…
In response to: "5th june 2006 "con t"" 1249 days old
by faffajane Pro
Thank you. more…
In response to: "6th june- (did not get time yesterday)" 1253 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
its easier for them to get rid our children than the real little $%&*$£""!£ . If IT was simple to find another club which i know it is not i would have told them where to stick it. i suppose we can only hope the nasty ones get sore throats. sounds nasty of me but so is what they do. hope your lad is not to upset. more…
In response to: "6th june- (did not get time yesterday)" 1256 days old
by [Visitor]
Typical. Our lad got "Red Carded" at the local youth club last night for verbally retaliating after a couple of regular golden-hearts kept calling him "Spaz Boy".
Means he's banned for a fortnight while the little butter-wouldn't-melt-in-their-mouth tormentors got off scot free.
*sigh* What's the point in saying anything? more…
In response to: "5th june 2006 "con t"" 1256 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
THE school gate is where i get all the stares because even if daniel dont act up on the way in or out of school they know all about his behaviour from there kids.
Its like being judged every day and as you know- no amount of thick skin can hide the looks of other parents. one thing is as they get older they start to notice how they tend to b more…
In response to: "5th june 2006 "con t"" 1256 days old
by Abby [Visitor]
I'm really sorry to hear of your hassles with the school. I don't know what to advise cos I'm new to all this myself and I've had the same sort of rubbish the other day but from other parents at the school gate. I'm supposed to develop a thick skin, apparently. My son doesn't seem to notice how he is treated. But maybe I'm being an ostrich abou more…
In response to: "5th june 2006 "con t"" 1257 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
Thanks for your advice and its nice to know that some schools have autism awareness and teachers that understand autism.
Daniel thanks you for your hug.also i saw you were after a power switch i had quick look around the web and your right. there hard to get hold of but i did notice an ebay seller although their over seas they deliver world more…
In response to: "5th june 2006 "con t"" 1257 days old
by faffajane Pro
Just had a read through your blog and I am appalled at your son's teacher, let alone the school allowing her to treat him this way. I work in a school and we allare aware of the differing needs of the children. Some of them are autistic but the other children are not told, they know that these children may have an adult with them to help them, b more…
In response to: "More on 22nd MAY" 1270 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Down right stupid - absolutely agreed.
Mean, thoughtless, bullying, unsupportive and damaging, too.
Send him huge support from me please and tell him the world will always have idiots, even ones that are teachers. more…
In response to: "More on 22nd MAY" 1270 days old
by runninggoose [Member]
Thanks. i do meet with the head teacher who seems to be most understanding but its the teachers who come into contact with him that seem to not always understand Daniels actions and i am not saying they should always get it right but as far as i can see its too many times they seem to get it wrong and although they will never see it the way i do as more…